"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LuckyStrike88

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I recently heard something that got to me.
Some guy acquired some knowledge, some knowledge that he at that point believed would be very useful. But choose to withhold it until it would have brought him everything he wanted, and he waited, until he was sure about it's quality and shared it from a happy place. And i believe everyone should do that, because there are too many mother****ers around here. Frustrated chumps talking big while they aren't even happy and successful themselves and you can sense the frustration in every word they write.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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loco

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Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
 

LuckyStrike88

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loco said:
Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
You do not get the point loco.
 

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I guess you didn't understand what I meant so I will try to rephrase,good,successful and proven knowledge even coming from a happy place is not a "one size fits all" what may work for someone may not for another,therefore the advice given here even coming from a good or bad place should be taken with a grain of salt.
 

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I understand LuckyStrike. I think the issues is that the advice is often presented as an absolute truth rather than a suggestion that has worked in the past. That's why you have to take everything with a grain of salt.

Also, I might not be the guy with the most success but I still understand the nature of woman and their behavior so I feel I can give advice, but then again, I don't consider things about woman to be complete truths (aka black or white)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
 

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Yewki said:
I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
Well very true, a bit like when the gym get full of people in January but 75% are gone by March.

Struggling with basics and finally scoring feels awesome but people like that need to remember that it's not the end of this DJ lifestyle. We need to keep improving, keep spinning plates, keep going for more money so that we can be happy.
 
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