"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LuckyStrike88

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I recently heard something that got to me.
Some guy acquired some knowledge, some knowledge that he at that point believed would be very useful. But choose to withhold it until it would have brought him everything he wanted, and he waited, until he was sure about it's quality and shared it from a happy place. And i believe everyone should do that, because there are too many mother****ers around here. Frustrated chumps talking big while they aren't even happy and successful themselves and you can sense the frustration in every word they write.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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loco

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Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
 

LuckyStrike88

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loco said:
Nobody on here is asking for advice in advance to use it 3 months later lol,if it makes sense and you use it then you do so at your own risk,the advice given here is merely that,advice not a fact.
You do not get the point loco.
 

loco

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I guess you didn't understand what I meant so I will try to rephrase,good,successful and proven knowledge even coming from a happy place is not a "one size fits all" what may work for someone may not for another,therefore the advice given here even coming from a good or bad place should be taken with a grain of salt.
 

badboyjmm

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I understand LuckyStrike. I think the issues is that the advice is often presented as an absolute truth rather than a suggestion that has worked in the past. That's why you have to take everything with a grain of salt.

Also, I might not be the guy with the most success but I still understand the nature of woman and their behavior so I feel I can give advice, but then again, I don't consider things about woman to be complete truths (aka black or white)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yewki

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I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
 

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Yewki said:
I find it interesting when someone is struggling to do the basics, but then finally when something goes right (i.e. getting laid) he reports back and suddenly he's made it. He's now a master DJ and is making threads to share his great wisdom and tell his tale. This usually doesn't last long. He'll mysteriously disappear, realizing he didn't actually accomplish much.... usually to return again later in shambles and with new issues.
Well very true, a bit like when the gym get full of people in January but 75% are gone by March.

Struggling with basics and finally scoring feels awesome but people like that need to remember that it's not the end of this DJ lifestyle. We need to keep improving, keep spinning plates, keep going for more money so that we can be happy.
 
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