Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds

corrector

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Hey, hey fella. Easy now. I still have to banter , create rapport , leave them waiting and then turn them on and arouse them using words / voice memos in a suave and charming way. And tailor it all specifically to them. So there’s still a Gamey process involved ,that takes time…
I'm talking about your bread and butter pipeline, like the hb5-6, etc.... Are you really putting in that much game for those?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In all fairness, the last decade has been one in which entirely too many of us have chosen to embody the stereotypes derided here

9:00-the end


5:56-6:40

It's tough to fault not just women, but society at large holding a less than charitable view of men, we've by and large refused to revamp our public image. I mean, really... When even f-c-ing murderers like these fellas (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazario_Moreno_González Quote: "Moreno González reportedly carried out several philanthropic deeds to help the marginalized in Michoacán. Such deeds helped him craft an image of protector, saint, and Christ-like messianic figure among the poor, and gave La Familia Michoacana a level of influence among some natives." )

Have successfully managed to win widespread public support, there's no excuse for the rest of us not doing likewise
 
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I just don't see all of this difficulty with getting laid. You guys read too much Internet garbage tailored for you by some algorithm. Improve your situation if you aren't getting laid. Get out of the house.
 

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I'm talking about your bread and butter pipeline, like the hb5-6, etc.... Are you really putting in that much game for those?
I would say for the most part .. yes.
I still put in the flirt , say sexy sh1t, try to relate or connect w them, and do all with a sense of humour and some uniqueness.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong and it could be more straightforward idk.

It’s a lot of work tbh and a big numbers game still.
 
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I would say for the most part .. yes.
I still put in the flirt , say sexy sh1t, try to relate or connect w them, and do all with a sense of humour and some uniqueness.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong and it could be more straightforward idk.

It’s a lot of work tbh and a big numbers game still.
I thought you just had to show up and they did all the work. Guess I'm wrong then. You have game then.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lame article. Blaming capitalism and political differences. 2/3 of women have accepted the Koolaid they have been served by other miserable feminist. Despite these new found freedoms, them seem more miserable than ever.
 

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Does not surprise me really.

Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men. But these men are never going to commit or treat them well. They want relationships with these men but the best they can hope to get is a situationship.

When bitter women complain about men always lying and cheating and just wanting sex they are of course talking about the top 10-20% of men.
 

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@viking22 "Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men"

The Deities beat society to the punch on that one. By 600,000 years or so
 

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Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men. But these men are never going to commit or treat them well. .
since there is basically the same number of boys and girls born, it's mathematical impossible for the top 20% of men to form committed relationships with the majority of women -- only short time.
 

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@BaronOfHair you are correct of course. What I meant is that they want the top 10-20% of men in the same way that most guys want to date a model/actress/cheerleader etc. The difference is that a lot of women seem no longer willing or able to settle and I think that has been the change over the past 20 years or so. Before once they passed their high school/college years most of them would grow out of trying to get players to commit and ignoring regular guys. Most regular guys I think when they are ready for a relationship would be content with a girl next door type that they have chemistry and a connection with. Now even when women try to do that they secretly resent the guy and act selfish and entitled as though the guy is lucky to be with them not even considering that the guy is also settling and she's no prize either.

@Slowhandluke people (and especially women) do not think logically. in the same way if you survey a group of people most will think they are above average drivers they think they can be the exceptional woman who can get the man to commit. And that is often the premise of a lot of the romance novels they read. And when they fail repeatedly their reaction is not to try giving regular guys a chance, their reaction is to stay single and get drunk with their girlfriends and complain how men just want sex, dating apps don't work, men are all liars and cheats etc. Until biology takes over and they get pumped and dumped again and the cycle repeats.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@viking22 "What I meant is that they want the top 10-20% of men in the same way that most guys want to date a model/actress/cheerleader etc"

Sucks for these women themselves. As men who've commited ourselves to "not settling" for life's leftovers though, their fate is less consequential to us than the price of a latte in Seattle is to dirt poor peasants in rural Uganda
 

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I just don't see all of this difficulty with getting laid. You guys read too much Internet garbage tailored for you by some algorithm. Improve your situation if you aren't getting laid. Get out of the house.
The top Sosuave players have slept with over 100 HB7+. and they are all 5’8.

It’s very easy.
 
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