"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds

corrector

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Hey, hey fella. Easy now. I still have to banter , create rapport , leave them waiting and then turn them on and arouse them using words / voice memos in a suave and charming way. And tailor it all specifically to them. So there’s still a Gamey process involved ,that takes time…
I'm talking about your bread and butter pipeline, like the hb5-6, etc.... Are you really putting in that much game for those?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In all fairness, the last decade has been one in which entirely too many of us have chosen to embody the stereotypes derided here

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5:56-6:40

It's tough to fault not just women, but society at large holding a less than charitable view of men, we've by and large refused to revamp our public image. I mean, really... When even f-c-ing murderers like these fellas (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nazario_Moreno_González Quote: "Moreno González reportedly carried out several philanthropic deeds to help the marginalized in Michoacán. Such deeds helped him craft an image of protector, saint, and Christ-like messianic figure among the poor, and gave La Familia Michoacana a level of influence among some natives." )

Have successfully managed to win widespread public support, there's no excuse for the rest of us not doing likewise
 
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I just don't see all of this difficulty with getting laid. You guys read too much Internet garbage tailored for you by some algorithm. Improve your situation if you aren't getting laid. Get out of the house.
 

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I'm talking about your bread and butter pipeline, like the hb5-6, etc.... Are you really putting in that much game for those?
I would say for the most part .. yes.
I still put in the flirt , say sexy sh1t, try to relate or connect w them, and do all with a sense of humour and some uniqueness.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong and it could be more straightforward idk.

It’s a lot of work tbh and a big numbers game still.
 
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I would say for the most part .. yes.
I still put in the flirt , say sexy sh1t, try to relate or connect w them, and do all with a sense of humour and some uniqueness.

Maybe I’m doing it wrong and it could be more straightforward idk.

It’s a lot of work tbh and a big numbers game still.
I thought you just had to show up and they did all the work. Guess I'm wrong then. You have game then.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lame article. Blaming capitalism and political differences. 2/3 of women have accepted the Koolaid they have been served by other miserable feminist. Despite these new found freedoms, them seem more miserable than ever.
 

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Does not surprise me really.

Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men. But these men are never going to commit or treat them well. They want relationships with these men but the best they can hope to get is a situationship.

When bitter women complain about men always lying and cheating and just wanting sex they are of course talking about the top 10-20% of men.
 

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@viking22 "Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men"

The Deities beat society to the punch on that one. By 600,000 years or so
 

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Society has now conditioned women to want the top 10-20% of men. But these men are never going to commit or treat them well. .
since there is basically the same number of boys and girls born, it's mathematical impossible for the top 20% of men to form committed relationships with the majority of women -- only short time.
 

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@BaronOfHair you are correct of course. What I meant is that they want the top 10-20% of men in the same way that most guys want to date a model/actress/cheerleader etc. The difference is that a lot of women seem no longer willing or able to settle and I think that has been the change over the past 20 years or so. Before once they passed their high school/college years most of them would grow out of trying to get players to commit and ignoring regular guys. Most regular guys I think when they are ready for a relationship would be content with a girl next door type that they have chemistry and a connection with. Now even when women try to do that they secretly resent the guy and act selfish and entitled as though the guy is lucky to be with them not even considering that the guy is also settling and she's no prize either.

@Slowhandluke people (and especially women) do not think logically. in the same way if you survey a group of people most will think they are above average drivers they think they can be the exceptional woman who can get the man to commit. And that is often the premise of a lot of the romance novels they read. And when they fail repeatedly their reaction is not to try giving regular guys a chance, their reaction is to stay single and get drunk with their girlfriends and complain how men just want sex, dating apps don't work, men are all liars and cheats etc. Until biology takes over and they get pumped and dumped again and the cycle repeats.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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@viking22 "What I meant is that they want the top 10-20% of men in the same way that most guys want to date a model/actress/cheerleader etc"

Sucks for these women themselves. As men who've commited ourselves to "not settling" for life's leftovers though, their fate is less consequential to us than the price of a latte in Seattle is to dirt poor peasants in rural Uganda
 

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I just don't see all of this difficulty with getting laid. You guys read too much Internet garbage tailored for you by some algorithm. Improve your situation if you aren't getting laid. Get out of the house.
The top Sosuave players have slept with over 100 HB7+. and they are all 5’8.

It’s very easy.
 
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