Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What are some good advices for online women and how to appropriately speak to them? Keep in mind I'm sure at least a decent woman has probably got tons of e-mails (if she has a website) from dogs saying "you're hot!!!" and all this crap, I think it's quite difficult trying to get a woman online and was wondering what you all think?

I came across this woman that I think would be fun to get to know but I am not sure how to e-mail her because I just feel she will for one be wondering how I found her site and automatically have her guard up and think I'm some stalker, then she'll probably think i'm like all the other guys who have probably e-mailed her and are complete dogs to her. How would I go on attracting her online in a friendly manner?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Have you even THOUGHT about using the search button? Goddamn.
 

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say "you are one ugly hoe"

if she replys you say

"now that I have your attention, wanna meet?"

:D
 

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Ive been experimenting w/ online women lately and most of them are just attention whorres, they like to post up seductive pics and get tons of email so they can pick and chose to their fancy. These are the worst kind of biatches imo and unless you are bored out of your fvcking mind, you should avoid talking to them. After browsing through their profiles for awhile you start to get a feel for whose a stupid biatch. Like they always say in their profile, " I want someone who has a good sense of humor, is exciting, a man who knows what he wants, and the biggest trap, " I want a man that doesnt play games and is just Honest" But yet these biatches are the biggest game players of them all! fvck em
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xblitz44x

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I haven't had many problems with online women. I have met probably close to 15 women from the internet, and slept with at least 6 that I can think of off the top of my head. The only issue that i have with it is that it's hard to predict chemistry. Some of the dates were flops but some of them brought on some great sex, and anothers great friendship.
 

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nice one

Originally posted by tom121
say "you are one ugly hoe"

if she replys you say

"now that I have your attention, wanna meet?"

:D
CLASSIC!!

and the funny thing, is that it works;)
 

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While there are some who are legitimate there are quite a few who are poorly disguised escorts and gold diggers.

Also beware of foreign chicks claiming to seek their "true love" when all they want is a golden ticket to the US via a green card. I have seen too many clueless AFC's fall victim to them.
 

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As much as i hate to admitt it, men will always be men, and will do whatever it takes to get some p0e$y (or at least THINK they will:rolleyes: )
 

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People still bag on the online thing, hahah.

Think it can't be done...ok guys, sure thing. Which is why I literally date 3-5 NEW girls each week whom I've met from online. All of them are at least 7's and 8's. Get the rare 9's from time to time. This is besides girls I date whom I met in the "real world" as well.

It wasn't always like this. It took about 2 years to get this down easy peasy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Climax

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what? u being serious? *sigh*

Originally posted by Soma
People still bag on the online thing, hahah.

Think it can't be done...ok guys, sure thing. Which is why I literally date 3-5 NEW girls each week whom I've met from online. All of them are at least 7's and 8's. Get the rare 9's from time to time. This is besides girls I date whom I met in the "real world" as well.

It wasn't always like this. It took about 2 years to get this down easy peasy.
1 question for you... where do you meet these "online" girls that are "7's" and "8's" ?

Cause as far as my knowledge servs me, nearly all the women that u meet online arent the "attractive" type.

And another thing... whats the point on meeting girls "online"? It requires so much patience and waiting! Why do that when u can just get off ur chair and away from your computer screen and go OUT anywhere and meet lots more chicks will alot more ease?

Some things in this world, i guess I'll just never understand:rolleyes:

And just to add to that, meeting girls online does not help your don juan skills in any way. In my opinion, ppl that meet girls online are just too insecure or affraid to approach then in real life.

Think about it... All you need to do when "approaching" a girl online is "click on her name/nickname", and in real life it takes alot more than that.

But thats just MY point of view on it, and i dont expect everyone to agree with me, but really, it IS a waste of tme. By the time u meet 1 girl from online, u could meet about a dozen in real life.

Laterz...
 

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I really think you need to get with the times.

On Friday night when I got home from the bar at 4 am, I logged onto Yahoo. Somebody wanted to add me as a "friend'. We started chatting. She sent me pictures, she was attractive. We both went onto webcam and started talking on there. Then she agreed to meet me. She understood that i just wanted to have sex and I wasn't interested in a relationship.

So at 7 am she got to my condo, we did what she came to do, and fell asleep. The next afternoon we woke up, hung out the entire day. She was cool as hell. I have many stories like this one.

The internet is no longer just pencil necks, pedaphiles, and fat broads.

Start at: www.myspace.com
 

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i might actually try this sh!t out, lol.... i neva thought that i would ever say that, but ya, nothing to loose;)
 

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Re: what? u being serious? *sigh*

Originally posted by aequitas
1 question for you... where do you meet these "online" girls that are "7's" and "8's" ?

Cause as far as my knowledge servs me, nearly all the women that u meet online arent the "attractive" type.

And another thing... whats the point on meeting girls "online"? It requires so much patience and waiting! Why do that when u can just get off ur chair and away from your computer screen and go OUT anywhere and meet lots more chicks will alot more ease?

Some things in this world, i guess I'll just never understand:rolleyes:

And just to add to that, meeting girls online does not help your don juan skills in any way. In my opinion, ppl that meet girls online are just too insecure or affraid to approach then in real life.

Think about it... All you need to do when "approaching" a girl online is "click on her name/nickname", and in real life it takes alot more than that.

But thats just MY point of view on it, and i dont expect everyone to agree with me, but really, it IS a waste of tme. By the time u meet 1 girl from online, u could meet about a dozen in real life.

Laterz...
I'd love to help you out but from your very last post it looks like you may have finally opened your eyes and mind.
 

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lol.. nah.. just wasnt that keen on the whole "online" thing... so i thought i'd give it a go though, for the fun of it and the experiance. Its something new, so why not;)

laterz...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by sapphire
While there are some who are legitimate there are quite a few who are poorly disguised escorts and gold diggers.

Also beware of foreign chicks claiming to seek their "true love" when all they want is a golden ticket to the US via a green card. I have seen too many clueless AFC's fall victim to them.
All of these things are a non-issue if you have good 'qualifying' skills.
 

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
I really think you need to get with the times.

On Friday night when I got home from the bar at 4 am, I logged onto Yahoo. Somebody wanted to add me as a "friend'. We started chatting. She sent me pictures, she was attractive. We both went onto webcam and started talking on there. Then she agreed to meet me. She understood that i just wanted to have sex and I wasn't interested in a relationship.

So at 7 am she got to my condo, we did what she came to do, and fell asleep. The next afternoon we woke up, hung out the entire day. She was cool as hell. I have many stories like this one.

The internet is no longer just pencil necks, pedaphiles, and fat broads.

Start at: www.myspace.com

Im not sure I would let some chik sleep in my house that i just met a few hours prior online, call me crazy.......
 

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i would NEVER let the chick stay in my place & sh!t after the 1st time meeting her.. i would go on a few "dates" 1st and get to know her better before doing that.... or a motel room would do if u want to bang her on the 1st night u meet her;)
 

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Originally posted by sapphire
WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS YOU DO TO QUALIFY THEM?
1. Determine their interest level.
2. Factor in her qualities that determines a 'good' woman.
3. Note the qualities that I don't care for but can live with.
4. Note the qualities that are deal breakers.
5. Determine my interest level.
6. Determine the ratio of my interest level to hers, if greater than 85%, I continue (your ratio can be different).

This is what works for me. Some guys can be more discerning, some less. I've noticed that the ones that are much less usually end up in situations that aren't that great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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