Online Messaging

[tdotseoul]

Ok so I've always wanted to **** a girl that I met online. So I have started messaging this girl through this site.

I messaged her and she responded within 15 minutes and her response was really good. She asked me interesting questions and answered mine really well.
So, it's 11 pm right now. When's the best time to respond back?

Here's my logic.

Immediately: pro - because we are able to maintain the connection we have but con - she might think I'm desperate.

Reply tomorrow: pro - she'll think that I'm giving her space and that I wasn't waiting for her reply desperately but con - we might lose the the connection we had through our first introduction.

What do you think?

 

[Iceberg]

Loosen up, buddy. It's some broad you haven't even met, and you're already worried about how long to reply to her messages.

Worry about this stuff when you get her number.

 

[tdotseoul]

I couldn't careless about what will happene with this girl.
I was asking about people's philosophy on replying back.
When would be a good time, etc.

The story is the content we could use to discuss.

And if you're not going to answer the question directly why do you even bother participating in a thread?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Ok so I've always wanted to **** a girl that I met online. So I have started messaging this girl through this site.

I messaged her and she responded within 15 minutes and her response was really good. She asked me interesting questions and answered mine really well.
So, it's 11 pm right now. When's the best time to respond back?

Here's my logic.

Immediately: pro - because we are able to maintain the connection we have but con - she might think I'm desperate.

Reply tomorrow: pro - she'll think that I'm giving her space and that I wasn't waiting for her reply desperately but con - we might lose the the connection we had through our first introduction.

What do you think?

What's "this site"? Are we talking online dating here or what? That affects how you approach the situation.

If we are talking about online dating sites like POF, you message fast and hard. If you wait 24 hours, she would have fielded 30 messages by then and won't even remember you.

 

[tdotseoul]

What's "this site"? Are we talking online dating here or what? That affects how you approach the situation.

If we are talking about online dating sites like POF, you message fast and hard. If you wait 24 hours, she would have fielded 30 messages by then and won't even remember you.

Tis true.
It's not POF haha it's a site where people don't get messages much.
It's CouchSurfing

 

[teakroy]

Ok so I've always wanted to **** a girl that I met online. So I have started messaging this girl through this site.

I messaged her and she responded within 15 minutes and her response was really good. She asked me interesting questions and answered mine really well.
So, it's 11 pm right now. When's the best time to respond back?

Here's my logic.

Immediately: pro - because we are able to maintain the connection we have but con - she might think I'm desperate.

Reply tomorrow: pro - she'll think that I'm giving her space and that I wasn't waiting for her reply desperately but con - we might lose the the connection we had through our first introduction.

What do you think?[/QUOTF

I guess you will never know for sure when is the right time.

But you could try to write fast.

If she slow down the answers.. slow down forgive and next her.

If she really care she will respond..