"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trying the tinder game and a girl messaged me first saying hey cutie. I was out playing poker so didn't want to go bang her right away.

Here's the tinder game messages. Criticism and or praise is welcome.

her: Hey cutie.
Me: hey
Her: How are you?
Me: Good just out and about
Her nice

4 hours later i message her

Me: I feel great
Her (instant message back) Thats good to hear
Her: So do I
Me: I got th
Me: (5 mins later) I had the radio going now it has stopped.
Me: Nice glasses by the way looks like you have different pairs of glasses that is.

No message back for over 20 mins. Either shes getting plowed by super chad or her phone has fell in the toliet.

Says on her profile shes a traveller and doesn't do one night stands?

Not going to message her again. On to the next chick. Went out today to the mall and had like several girls giggle when i looked at them. 1 gay guy look at me and then looked away and then looked back and smiled. I stare down pretty much everyone including guys. I kinda don't know how to approach in the mall. Had chicks in the past sort of open me when i look at them during the day and then its pretty much on from there. nightgame is a pulling fest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Next time don't inform her about the status of your radio, just invite her over.
 

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Next time don't inform her about the status of your radio, just invite her over.
I'm going to listen to this advice and instead of doing the comfort **** like talking about crap just tell her to come over.
thanks mate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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