"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online/Facebook gaming?

ElStud

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Well, my ex-friend introduced me to this hot girl from another school a couple days ago and I made a facebook and she accepted me. But lol thing is, I have no way of meeting up with her yet, so the only way I can game her as of now is online. But how DO you game a girl along? Like how do you get a girl attracted to you from SIMPLY gaming online? I'd like to know this. I sent her a message the other day and she said something like "That's cool", so I think I'm doing something right so far. But yeah, I'd like advice on this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm Charming

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Got to create a good first impression with a decent facebook, if you give us a link maybe we can give you some tips.
 

young_gun

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If a girl says "that's cool" to you, especially over the internet, she wants to jump in the sack with you ASAP. You're definitely on the right track.

can we see the facebook page now?
 

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Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ElStud

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Effington said:
Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
Well lol when she told me she forgot her AIM password I busted on her for being forgetful. And as for the whole world being able to see, that's why you send her messages.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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For sarging social networks I'd search for posts about MySpace by skip2mylou and his many reincarnations. He's probably written about every imaginable aspect about MySpace.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Effington said:
Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest...
True, but people are drawn into the "it's free" frenzy.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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There is ups and downs to meeting women over the internet.

1.The plus is for guys who have played the field and know how to get women by approaching and what not.

2. The down is for you guys who have not much experience with, eye contact, your bodylanguage, communication skills, socialing skills, kino and ect. Are setting yourself up for failure. Sure, you may seem fun and exciting, ****y or whatever over the internet.

But, if you don't have much experience with eye contact, kino and ect... When, you finally meet her in person there is a good chance you will fail.
 
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