Well, my ex-friend introduced me to this hot girl from another school a couple days ago and I made a facebook and she accepted me. But lol thing is, I have no way of meeting up with her yet, so the only way I can game her as of now is online. But how DO you game a girl along? Like how do you get a girl attracted to you from SIMPLY gaming online? I'd like to know this. I sent her a message the other day and she said something like "That's cool", so I think I'm doing something right so far. But yeah, I'd like advice on this.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Online/Facebook gaming?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Got to create a good first impression with a decent facebook, if you give us a link maybe we can give you some tips.
Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well lol when she told me she forgot her AIM password I busted on her for being forgetful. And as for the whole world being able to see, that's why you send her messages.Effington said:Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
For sarging social networks I'd search for posts about MySpace by skip2mylou and his many reincarnations. He's probably written about every imaginable aspect about MySpace.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True, but people are drawn into the "it's free" frenzy.Effington said:Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest...
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
There is ups and downs to meeting women over the internet.
1.The plus is for guys who have played the field and know how to get women by approaching and what not.
2. The down is for you guys who have not much experience with, eye contact, your bodylanguage, communication skills, socialing skills, kino and ect. Are setting yourself up for failure. Sure, you may seem fun and exciting, ****y or whatever over the internet.
But, if you don't have much experience with eye contact, kino and ect... When, you finally meet her in person there is a good chance you will fail.
1.The plus is for guys who have played the field and know how to get women by approaching and what not.
2. The down is for you guys who have not much experience with, eye contact, your bodylanguage, communication skills, socialing skills, kino and ect. Are setting yourself up for failure. Sure, you may seem fun and exciting, ****y or whatever over the internet.
But, if you don't have much experience with eye contact, kino and ect... When, you finally meet her in person there is a good chance you will fail.