"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Online/Facebook gaming?

ElStud

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Well, my ex-friend introduced me to this hot girl from another school a couple days ago and I made a facebook and she accepted me. But lol thing is, I have no way of meeting up with her yet, so the only way I can game her as of now is online. But how DO you game a girl along? Like how do you get a girl attracted to you from SIMPLY gaming online? I'd like to know this. I sent her a message the other day and she said something like "That's cool", so I think I'm doing something right so far. But yeah, I'd like advice on this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm Charming

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Got to create a good first impression with a decent facebook, if you give us a link maybe we can give you some tips.
 

young_gun

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If a girl says "that's cool" to you, especially over the internet, she wants to jump in the sack with you ASAP. You're definitely on the right track.

can we see the facebook page now?
 

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Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ElStud

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Effington said:
Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest. The only thing I can think of is busting on her for dumb looking pictures she's in, but remember, the entire world can see what you write.
Well lol when she told me she forgot her AIM password I busted on her for being forgetful. And as for the whole world being able to see, that's why you send her messages.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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For sarging social networks I'd search for posts about MySpace by skip2mylou and his many reincarnations. He's probably written about every imaginable aspect about MySpace.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Effington said:
Facebook is great for arranging parties and events, but not as great for increasing interest...
True, but people are drawn into the "it's free" frenzy.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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There is ups and downs to meeting women over the internet.

1.The plus is for guys who have played the field and know how to get women by approaching and what not.

2. The down is for you guys who have not much experience with, eye contact, your bodylanguage, communication skills, socialing skills, kino and ect. Are setting yourself up for failure. Sure, you may seem fun and exciting, ****y or whatever over the internet.

But, if you don't have much experience with eye contact, kino and ect... When, you finally meet her in person there is a good chance you will fail.
 
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