That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
His birthdate in his profile says he's mid-thirties. That sounds over 25 to me.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I have other words but I'll refrain from using them right now.
actually that isnt true.
I didn't read that until a very long time after you sent it because I had only made a "drive by" visit. That's why I never answered it.Originally posted by penkitten
actually that isnt true.
because when i first saw that you were back on the site, i sent you a pm because i had missed you and was saying hey wassupp chickie where ya been? telling you i had a new baby and that kind of stuff.
you never wrote me back at all
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i havent seen dink, drew , rob , adam , ripp or my old pyscho therpist buddy who i cant even remember his name in years on here.
oh i see, i wasnt sure why you didnt reply to me.