"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Generally "feedback" doesn't consist of 3 threads being turned into over 15 pages combined of arguing points that keep getting explained. Just admit it Wyld, you are looking for attention. Otherwise you'd see that EVERY argument you make is either pointless ("it doesn't show up on the forum default!") or shot down by other posters ("the site is too censored!")
I also noticed your post in Discussion. Trying to get rid of repetative stuff too? Isn't that keeping other users from posting questions?
Originally posted by Eternal
Generally "feedback" doesn't consist of 3 threads being turned into over 15 pages combined of arguing points that keep getting explained. Just admit it Wyld, you are looking for attention. Otherwise you'd see that EVERY argument you make is either pointless ("it doesn't show up on the forum default!") or shot down by other posters ("the site is too censored!")
I also noticed your post in Discussion. Trying to get rid of repetative stuff too? Isn't that keeping other users from posting questions?
Actually, Eternal...the ONLY reason the threads have grown so long is because yourself and others feel compelled to post to me. The longest thread was something I posted FOR ALLEN...and it was you who were the first one to jump on there and post to me. I'm not responding to myself...so you're just as guilty as anyone else in making that thread long.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Because remember Gio, she doesn't like using a Private Message system...It would cut down on the chance of a guy going "where's the pic!!!!!"
In the thread to Allen, I made a statement saying why your post wouldn't be deleted from it. You just took it as an attack and made 3 paragraphs about ONE sentence I said.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
Just an FYI. Resume throwing poopie at each other.
Again, you're not even quoting what I actually said. I said, "I had another recent picture but I didn't put it on the page because it makes my boobs look huge." Quite clearly...if it really was attention that I was looking for, I would have put that picture on the page and wrote "Check out the picture that shows how big my boobs are!"Originally posted by Eternal
Oh no, openly posting "hey, I got a pic that make my boobs look huge!" and "anyone guess my age because I wonder how young I look" isn't asking for attention, especially when posted on a MALE site.
I've seen several guys asking people to guess their ages based on their pictures...does that mean they are gay and want to be hit on by the guys on here?
I've asked both women and men if they could guess my age, because they usually can't...which I find comical. It's intended as a conversation starter...nothing more. Again...I'm about to turn 39, and as I've said before...I already have someone in my life...I certianly have no interest in anyone on this site. Just because men aren't able to interact with women without being interested in them doesn't mean that women can't interact with men without wanting their attention or being interested. Honestly, you guys should know better than to try to analyze what motivates a woman...especially if you do so from the eyes of a man.
Thank you...it was a mistake on my part, then. I honestly thought I posted in the thread from General discussion.
In light of how those topics were being deleted before, it was very easy for me to believe it would have been deleted or moved.
Again, thank you for responding like an adult.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I wasn't trying to quote you exactly. I honestly don't care. I would say you knew people would PM you asking for the pic. Of course, if they did, you'd just go "I don't use PM's."
I feel like I lose a brain cell everytime I read your post.
If you have a guy outside of this site, why are you wasting time on here whining about a thread being locked (and then merged?) Why complain about a moderator doing his job? About forum rules that I already showed you a copy of. About a thread that had a title of "Post your pictures ONLY!"
As if having the word "ONLY" in caps wasn't enough, there was this:
I even just bolded the important part for you Wyld.
Stop whining because you didn't take the 1 minute to search or 15 seconds to read what two mods had posted in there or the 5 seconds to read the thread title.
Again, because now this thread is stupid as hell, I'm gonna walk away from it. I know you are gonna dance around going "HA! Eternal gave up!" That is fine. I also know you are gonna reply to this, so have fun talking to air babes. I know you'll be mad because I won't reply, therefore you can't go "OHH!! Eternal is showing me attention by replying" but I'm sure your "man" will help you out.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
Honestly, I didn't really care about the one thread, it was more just wondering if that was the treatment of those topics that I could expect.
I'm satisfied not only with the response from Allen, but as well by the ability of you and Vincent independent of Allen coming to the conclusion on your own that it probably didn't deserve censorship.
I'm a happy participant in the board again, and have no problem with the moderation.
Actually, I always respond to PMs I get, because that's polite. I just hate using them.
I don't want your attention, Eternal. You don't even want to know what my opinion of you is, so don't flatter yourself by thinking that. Nothing could be further from the truth. I disagree with you and am responding to your posts to me. That's it. I posted on here with a question and I'm NOT the one who turned it into what it has become. You and Gio did that with your emotional outbursts.
Nope...and it's hilarious how you had to jump on this thread to try to get MY attention seeing as I ignored your post on the other thread. That makes you calling me an "attention wh*re" all the funnier, because it's really you that's behaving like one.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Now that was just plain wrong.....Originally posted by Wyldfire
I heard Allen has a hairy butt...his online date told me.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So was I, but no one can tell anymore with how the climate has changed.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.