Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
His birthdate in his profile says he's mid-thirties. That sounds over 25 to me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I have other words but I'll refrain from using them right now.
actually that isnt true.
I didn't read that until a very long time after you sent it because I had only made a "drive by" visit. That's why I never answered it.Originally posted by penkitten
actually that isnt true.
because when i first saw that you were back on the site, i sent you a pm because i had missed you and was saying hey wassupp chickie where ya been? telling you i had a new baby and that kind of stuff.
you never wrote me back at all
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i havent seen dink, drew , rob , adam , ripp or my old pyscho therpist buddy who i cant even remember his name in years on here.
oh i see, i wasnt sure why you didnt reply to me.