"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sexy_Malibu

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Deja vu.

Same-old-same-old.

Even the insults are the same.

Oh and while I'm here...

Originally posted by Wyldfire
The guy who started it didn't sound over 25 to me. Hi age wasn't on his profile, either.
His birthdate in his profile says he's mid-thirties. That sounds over 25 to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire

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I didn't look at his profile and his age doesn't show up on his posts. He sounds under 25 to me.

Frankly, this particular discussion should have ended immediately after someone posting on the thread told me it's always been there. I really did think it was moved or deleted...otherwise I wouldn't have asked about it. I politely thanked the person for their post and it should have ended there. If you go back and read beyond that point, you'll see why it didn't end there and why you're merely contributing to the problem.
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Actually, I always respond to PMs I get, because that's polite. I just hate using them.

actually that isnt true.
because when i first saw that you were back on the site, i sent you a pm because i had missed you and was saying hey wassupp chickie where ya been? telling you i had a new baby and that kind of stuff.
you never wrote me back at all :(
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
actually that isnt true.
because when i first saw that you were back on the site, i sent you a pm because i had missed you and was saying hey wassupp chickie where ya been? telling you i had a new baby and that kind of stuff.
you never wrote me back at all :(
I didn't read that until a very long time after you sent it because I had only made a "drive by" visit. That's why I never answered it.

I'm leaving again very soon...probably for good this time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

penkitten

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I was joking for crying out loud. Man, where is Drew, Nick and cyclo? Everyone is so damn uptight here now.
i havent seen dink, drew , rob , adam , ripp or my old pyscho therpist buddy who i cant even remember his name in years on here.
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I didn't read that until a very long time after you sent it because I had only made a "drive by" visit. That's why I never answered it.

I'm leaving again very soon...probably for good this time.
oh i see, i wasnt sure why you didnt reply to me.
and i would hate to see you go chickie....
 
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