Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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buckwheat18

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I put up a profile for fun at American Singels. I was checking my e-mail that I haven't checked in a a couple days and I got a reply back. She said she was new to my area and had a pic, she looks like an 8. Wheather or not this pic is really her is another story. Anyhow i was thinking of showing her around. Think this is a wise idea my brothers? The worst that could happen is she turns out to be totally fugly, in wich case I would just run and not look back. If requested i'll post her pic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mack Bishop

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gun that **** up. looks like her nipples are hard in the pic
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NatureGuy

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Am Singles is a great site, but there are alot of fakes on that site and probably most sites. They typically post a model's photo and then eventually try to get money or something from you. They can be tricky. They're usually foreign, but there are some operating out of NY city (probably foreign too!).
If she wants to meet you, talk to you on the phone, seems motivated by your person and not material things she's probably OK.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just find out if she wants to meet. Don't half step with the telephone number, it's a waste of time. Meet for coffee for a little bit and if all's well, THEN get her number and progress from there.
 
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