"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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buckwheat18

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I put up a profile for fun at American Singels. I was checking my e-mail that I haven't checked in a a couple days and I got a reply back. She said she was new to my area and had a pic, she looks like an 8. Wheather or not this pic is really her is another story. Anyhow i was thinking of showing her around. Think this is a wise idea my brothers? The worst that could happen is she turns out to be totally fugly, in wich case I would just run and not look back. If requested i'll post her pic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mack Bishop

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gun that **** up. looks like her nipples are hard in the pic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NatureGuy

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Am Singles is a great site, but there are alot of fakes on that site and probably most sites. They typically post a model's photo and then eventually try to get money or something from you. They can be tricky. They're usually foreign, but there are some operating out of NY city (probably foreign too!).
If she wants to meet you, talk to you on the phone, seems motivated by your person and not material things she's probably OK.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just find out if she wants to meet. Don't half step with the telephone number, it's a waste of time. Meet for coffee for a little bit and if all's well, THEN get her number and progress from there.
 
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