"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backseatjuan

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Sometimes magic happens. I've been chasing one girl this summer, then another one. Neither wanted me, and like my friend said, if they don't want us, fvck 'em. I opened up online dating profile on love.mail.ru, I've e-mailed a bunch of girls, and eventually got 3 dates, of them two with sex. On 3rd day of me opening my profile I've met a wonderful woman, and we are now planning to live together and get married, and have children. Just want I needed and was searching for, my soul mate. When you see her you know she is the one, because all others just not compare and are borring.

She come to my town on vacation with a guy, and that guy got jelous and dumped her. She was sitting in her hotel room afraid of going anywhere alone. I messaged her twice, asked if she already got married, as her looking for status said she wants a serious relationship and marriage. She said there is no one. I've said there is me, and we met the same day. We went shopping for gifts to bring back home - yes she bought them on her own money. I was cautious at first, because she was very open. Then we went to a sushi bar and drank wine and ate sushi, after it I drove her to place above our city with a view and we made out. No sex, she had her period.

The dude she was with had all her pictures, so the next day I spend with her. We went to a nice place with waterfalls and canyon and made some excellent pics, then we ate our bbq and drank wine, and made pictures with her on the hood of my car, we were drunk. Then we drove to the beach at night, and had sex right on the beach. I told her you are mine, I'm coming to get her. The next day she left.

Two weeks later I went to her city and spend with her one week. She wasn't sure if she wanted to come with me to my city and be with me, even said she had a guy that she met online back in April and wanted to meet him before she decided. I told her I don't want to be 2nd, that's not acceptable, I'm here, I'm here for her, and I want her with me. Then I went back to my home town, and just one day after I arrived she said yes, she is going to be with me, she wants me.

So now, I'm buying ticket again this coming monday, to go and get her and bring her back with me. 11th I will come and get her.

Online dating works guys. Go get yourself a wife, and remember, if they don't want us, fvck 'em. You deserve yourself a beautiful soul mate! Go get her!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Young OG

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At first I thought this was a troll post, but your not a new member.

Have you ever read the DJ Bible or The Rational Male? There is no such thing as a soulmate. I also wouldn't advise any man to marry a woman nowadays. Live with a woman, but don't marry them. This sounds a little to good to be true. I would be careful. Don't go making babies with this woman for a while.
 

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Posted like a true AFC...you met some chick online and asked if she got married?? Wtf is this?

Ill be waiting for a post next month saying how she broke your heart...
 
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It's 7 am in the morning and I know this was posted yesterday but geeze the trolling has really gone downhill

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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