“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Online dating sites

Pick one or several options: which site you like and which you don't?

  • Yahoo seems ok

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Match seems ok

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • Americansingles seems ok

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Myspace seem ok

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • PlentyofFish ok

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • Yahoo seems bad

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • Match seems bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Americansingles seems bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Myspace seem bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • PlentyofFish seem bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%
  • Total voters
    11

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

A

al77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
1,264
Reaction score
0
Location
Great Lakes
Interesting trend so far: seem more people have _negative_ experience with online dating sites: which is very understandable: the sites are interested in people who use them and pay them for the use. And who will use them?
Right, the people who didn't find any matches...

Seems onling dating sites are interested in the situation when customers do not find any decent matches.
 
I

insomniac

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2004
Messages
211
Reaction score
3
Location
MN
My comments:

Match - Good selection of women, but the user features are horrible. They let other people know you've looked at them, you can't easily contact people with your profile hidden, and they make it difficult to cancel your account. And no IM.

Yahoo - Not as great a selection as match, but can easily contact people while hidden, plus IM

American Singles - Horrible selection. Never bothered trying that out.
 
F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
For you DJs that are cheap, er... unsure of the pay sites, WebDate.com is a decent alternative.
 
A

al77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
1,264
Reaction score
0
Location
Great Lakes
Thus small poll shows dissatisfaction with onling dating in general. Sad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

G

gixxer

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2005
Messages
158
Reaction score
0
Age
54
Location
Middletown, CT
Actually, my preferred method for meeting girls is online. I do really well with it. It has hurt my cold approaches though since I can still get laid without doing any.

gixx
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top