"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Online dating sites

Pick one or several options: which site you like and which you don't?

  • Yahoo seems ok

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Match seems ok

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • Americansingles seems ok

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Myspace seem ok

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • PlentyofFish ok

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • Yahoo seems bad

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • Match seems bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Americansingles seems bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • Myspace seem bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • PlentyofFish seem bad

    Votes: 3 27.3%
  • Total voters
    11

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting trend so far: seem more people have _negative_ experience with online dating sites: which is very understandable: the sites are interested in people who use them and pay them for the use. And who will use them?
Right, the people who didn't find any matches...

Seems onling dating sites are interested in the situation when customers do not find any decent matches.
 
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My comments:

Match - Good selection of women, but the user features are horrible. They let other people know you've looked at them, you can't easily contact people with your profile hidden, and they make it difficult to cancel your account. And no IM.

Yahoo - Not as great a selection as match, but can easily contact people while hidden, plus IM

American Singles - Horrible selection. Never bothered trying that out.
 
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For you DJs that are cheap, er... unsure of the pay sites, WebDate.com is a decent alternative.
 
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Thus small poll shows dissatisfaction with onling dating in general. Sad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Actually, my preferred method for meeting girls is online. I do really well with it. It has hurt my cold approaches though since I can still get laid without doing any.

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