"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Online Dating - First Dates, looking for advice

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Jifto

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I've never done the online dating thing before, but jumped on after ghosting a pretty terrible HB8. In my first week I did pretty well and have 3 dates lined up for this coming week. I'm not that attracted to any of these girls, but they are all *ok*. I'm looking to just get better at this game.

That said, does anyone have any advice / strategy on what to do on these dates. Big "DO NOT DOs" or "MUST DOs"? I've dated a dozen people, but never cold opens like this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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custardpie

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Meet them at a bar and have a couple of drinks with them. Don't buy them dinner or anything like that.
Afterwards take them back to your place and bang. Done.
Also, stop referring to them as 'dates' especially if you're not that attracted to them and only looking to get your **** wet. It's a meeting to find out if they're crazy/fvckable or not and then you make your decision on wether to take them home based on that. The vast majority of women on OLD are only good for fvcking, remember that.
 
cola

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Online dates..
Happy hour wings and drinks. Bill should be 35$ flat.
 
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