Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Online Dating - First Dates, looking for advice

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Jifto

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I've never done the online dating thing before, but jumped on after ghosting a pretty terrible HB8. In my first week I did pretty well and have 3 dates lined up for this coming week. I'm not that attracted to any of these girls, but they are all *ok*. I'm looking to just get better at this game.

That said, does anyone have any advice / strategy on what to do on these dates. Big "DO NOT DOs" or "MUST DOs"? I've dated a dozen people, but never cold opens like this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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custardpie

custardpie

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Meet them at a bar and have a couple of drinks with them. Don't buy them dinner or anything like that.
Afterwards take them back to your place and bang. Done.
Also, stop referring to them as 'dates' especially if you're not that attracted to them and only looking to get your **** wet. It's a meeting to find out if they're crazy/fvckable or not and then you make your decision on wether to take them home based on that. The vast majority of women on OLD are only good for fvcking, remember that.
 
cola

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Online dates..
Happy hour wings and drinks. Bill should be 35$ flat.
 
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