"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


 

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decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
 

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Did you set up a date with the girl from.last night?

Dont msg them too much just until you know you can ask them on a date
 

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What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
i gotta see how it's set up

with being into Latin, middle eastern and italian girls - the struggle there is them being in shape. If they're in shape, they always have great ass and decent tits. Darker women are not flat
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol, she is legit top 1% of women with a body that hot
Id say 10-20% a very large amount of former atheletes and not enough years to get fat.

Please dont sweat those hoez. They position themselves to absorb attention.
The DJ bible is literally the dating bible in modern day Babylon. Also Mr Locario has youtube on dating for handsome guys.

Your game will never be good if you give away your power base on appearance.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Get some head and get some puzzy. Date others. Keep having sex till other options.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Fun fact: when you go into it with this mindset a very specific thing happens, the date goes well and then you're like:
And you totally fvck it up

So... Be on guard.
 

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Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
Who cares. Were talking about an incel at the bottom 1% when it comes to game. He needs to get some successes under his belt.
 

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Meet up with her and you'll know for sure how she looks. Don't build up a fear of the unknown which may be completely false.
 

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
 

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her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
How realistic is it to land an experience and worldly highly attractive babe and your "game" and "swag" has been "zero'd out"? Very low odds captain. In the world of women none of them want to be the first. They like preselected guys. Dont fight life.
 

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That's the spirit! :rolleyes:

But you did good. Just meet. Decide from there. Keep this simple.
we just have great chemistry when we message each other. I can text her about whatever and it just flows naturally and we get along great. I'm sure we will get along amazing in person.

im talking to this middle eastern chick and she seems to be a very nice person who is also super cute but conversation just doesn't seem to flow

why you think this is?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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