"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skyline

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


 

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decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
 

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Did you set up a date with the girl from.last night?

Dont msg them too much just until you know you can ask them on a date
 

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What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
i gotta see how it's set up

with being into Latin, middle eastern and italian girls - the struggle there is them being in shape. If they're in shape, they always have great ass and decent tits. Darker women are not flat
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol, she is legit top 1% of women with a body that hot
Id say 10-20% a very large amount of former atheletes and not enough years to get fat.

Please dont sweat those hoez. They position themselves to absorb attention.
The DJ bible is literally the dating bible in modern day Babylon. Also Mr Locario has youtube on dating for handsome guys.

Your game will never be good if you give away your power base on appearance.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
 

mrgoodstuff

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Get some head and get some puzzy. Date others. Keep having sex till other options.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Fun fact: when you go into it with this mindset a very specific thing happens, the date goes well and then you're like:
And you totally fvck it up

So... Be on guard.
 

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Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
Who cares. Were talking about an incel at the bottom 1% when it comes to game. He needs to get some successes under his belt.
 

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Meet up with her and you'll know for sure how she looks. Don't build up a fear of the unknown which may be completely false.
 

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
 

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her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
How realistic is it to land an experience and worldly highly attractive babe and your "game" and "swag" has been "zero'd out"? Very low odds captain. In the world of women none of them want to be the first. They like preselected guys. Dont fight life.
 

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That's the spirit! :rolleyes:

But you did good. Just meet. Decide from there. Keep this simple.
we just have great chemistry when we message each other. I can text her about whatever and it just flows naturally and we get along great. I'm sure we will get along amazing in person.

im talking to this middle eastern chick and she seems to be a very nice person who is also super cute but conversation just doesn't seem to flow

why you think this is?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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