"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heres a convo I had with a girl who i was in the friends zone with, it took place a couple of weeks after I was introduced to Deangelo's material and reading these forums . You can see she's noticing the change. At the end of the convo she was asking me to go see her right away and such even though her wussy b/f would find out thru her brother.
her: hi
me: wuts up?
her: confussed
her: you?
me: confussed about wut
me: do u think ur lesbian or sumthing
her: alot of ppl iming me asking to see my cam
her: hell no
me: hows that confussing
her: cuz there all asking different things
me: like wut
her: alot but who cares
her: whats up?
me: same old
her: are you feeling better?
me: yea it s going away
her: good
her: <my name> guess what
me: u broke up with him
her: no
me: ok wut?
her: my butt is numb
me: it needs to be smacked
her: no
me: i have a stick with long leather strips on the top that i use on girls
me: that should work
her: i didnt need to know that
her: lol
me: oh yea sorry i forgot ur under 18
her: smartass
me: im gonna make a section on my buddy list for ppl under 18
me: ur gonna be the only one there
her: fine with me
her: <my name>
me: so that i dont forget your age
her: <my name> can i ask you something
me: ??
her: y are you acting different tonight
me: im not
her: yes you are
me: we've only talked for 2mins and ur saying that?
her: yeah cuz of what you said in those 2 min
her: dont be mad plz
me: im not mad but im not defferent either
me: at least i dont feel like im being different
her: oh ok maybe it just me then
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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