"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Heres a convo I had with a girl who i was in the friends zone with, it took place a couple of weeks after I was introduced to Deangelo's material and reading these forums . You can see she's noticing the change. At the end of the convo she was asking me to go see her right away and such even though her wussy b/f would find out thru her brother.
her: hi
me: wuts up?
her: confussed
her: you?
me: confussed about wut
me: do u think ur lesbian or sumthing
her: alot of ppl iming me asking to see my cam
her: hell no
me: hows that confussing
her: cuz there all asking different things
me: like wut
her: alot but who cares
her: whats up?
me: same old
her: are you feeling better?
me: yea it s going away
her: good
her: <my name> guess what
me: u broke up with him
her: no
me: ok wut?
her: my butt is numb
me: it needs to be smacked
her: no
me: i have a stick with long leather strips on the top that i use on girls
me: that should work
her: i didnt need to know that
her: lol
me: oh yea sorry i forgot ur under 18
her: smartass
me: im gonna make a section on my buddy list for ppl under 18
me: ur gonna be the only one there
her: fine with me
her: <my name>
me: so that i dont forget your age
her: <my name> can i ask you something
me: ??
her: y are you acting different tonight
me: im not
her: yes you are
me: we've only talked for 2mins and ur saying that?
her: yeah cuz of what you said in those 2 min
her: dont be mad plz
me: im not mad but im not defferent either
me: at least i dont feel like im being different
her: oh ok maybe it just me then
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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