"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heres a convo I had with a girl who i was in the friends zone with, it took place a couple of weeks after I was introduced to Deangelo's material and reading these forums . You can see she's noticing the change. At the end of the convo she was asking me to go see her right away and such even though her wussy b/f would find out thru her brother.
her: hi
me: wuts up?
her: confussed
her: you?
me: confussed about wut
me: do u think ur lesbian or sumthing
her: alot of ppl iming me asking to see my cam
her: hell no
me: hows that confussing
her: cuz there all asking different things
me: like wut
her: alot but who cares
her: whats up?
me: same old
her: are you feeling better?
me: yea it s going away
her: good
her: <my name> guess what
me: u broke up with him
her: no
me: ok wut?
her: my butt is numb
me: it needs to be smacked
her: no
me: i have a stick with long leather strips on the top that i use on girls
me: that should work
her: i didnt need to know that
her: lol
me: oh yea sorry i forgot ur under 18
her: smartass
me: im gonna make a section on my buddy list for ppl under 18
me: ur gonna be the only one there
her: fine with me
her: <my name>
me: so that i dont forget your age
her: <my name> can i ask you something
me: ??
her: y are you acting different tonight
me: im not
her: yes you are
me: we've only talked for 2mins and ur saying that?
her: yeah cuz of what you said in those 2 min
her: dont be mad plz
me: im not mad but im not defferent either
me: at least i dont feel like im being different
her: oh ok maybe it just me then
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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