"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kk2004

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im in a LTR of three months, and when my gf is at work i usually AIM her for about two hours maybe three days out fo the five.

Is AIM good for a LTR. She is at work. so she cant call me. I can only see her once a week cuz her mother is strict. So i do talk to her on the phone alot at least three times day for maybe 15 min each.

also is seein her once a week good, i remb from the bible that it was a rule in the post of how to keep ur LTR strong.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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hey give us a full breakdown of ur relationship.

ages?
history?
sex life?
communication?
 

kk2004

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okay

i am 18 she is 17
we have had sex three times we are realli horny, we talk about sex all most evertyime we see each other.
we have been goign out for three months now.
Communication, i guess its good, i mean we talk on the phone three times a day. she calls me more.

I cant see her more than once a week bcuz her mom is very strict and she doesnt even know we are going out. if her mohter did she would give her a realiii hard time if i saw her anytime.

our history is good, no cheating, we say luv u, she said it first, i went to her prom and we have done lots of fun things toghether.
 

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are u both seniors? are u going to college next yr?

close to her?

dont worry about this ****..ur so young!


I know that u dont want to hear that or accept it.

but u are so young....just dont worry and have fun.
 

kk2004

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yeah

yeah she is gonna actually go to the same college and our schedules are perfect, she is gonna turn 18 soon and gonna go to college and im gonna be a sohpmore in college.

recently i was puttin a dapmer on our relationship cuz i kept brining the topic of her mohter being so harsh and that makes her upset. Im just gonna try to focus and have fun and enjoy my time with her.

So i dont know if AIM would make our relationship stronger or weaker. based on don juans rules. I know u told me to forget it, but u want me to forget her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thx

thx man. that was the answer i needed. I guess no AIm for me :D
 
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