Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kk2004

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im in a LTR of three months, and when my gf is at work i usually AIM her for about two hours maybe three days out fo the five.

Is AIM good for a LTR. She is at work. so she cant call me. I can only see her once a week cuz her mother is strict. So i do talk to her on the phone alot at least three times day for maybe 15 min each.

also is seein her once a week good, i remb from the bible that it was a rule in the post of how to keep ur LTR strong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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hey give us a full breakdown of ur relationship.

ages?
history?
sex life?
communication?
 

kk2004

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okay

i am 18 she is 17
we have had sex three times we are realli horny, we talk about sex all most evertyime we see each other.
we have been goign out for three months now.
Communication, i guess its good, i mean we talk on the phone three times a day. she calls me more.

I cant see her more than once a week bcuz her mom is very strict and she doesnt even know we are going out. if her mohter did she would give her a realiii hard time if i saw her anytime.

our history is good, no cheating, we say luv u, she said it first, i went to her prom and we have done lots of fun things toghether.
 

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are u both seniors? are u going to college next yr?

close to her?

dont worry about this ****..ur so young!


I know that u dont want to hear that or accept it.

but u are so young....just dont worry and have fun.
 

kk2004

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yeah

yeah she is gonna actually go to the same college and our schedules are perfect, she is gonna turn 18 soon and gonna go to college and im gonna be a sohpmore in college.

recently i was puttin a dapmer on our relationship cuz i kept brining the topic of her mohter being so harsh and that makes her upset. Im just gonna try to focus and have fun and enjoy my time with her.

So i dont know if AIM would make our relationship stronger or weaker. based on don juans rules. I know u told me to forget it, but u want me to forget her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kk2004

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thx

thx man. that was the answer i needed. I guess no AIm for me :D
 
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