"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kk2004

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im in a LTR of three months, and when my gf is at work i usually AIM her for about two hours maybe three days out fo the five.

Is AIM good for a LTR. She is at work. so she cant call me. I can only see her once a week cuz her mother is strict. So i do talk to her on the phone alot at least three times day for maybe 15 min each.

also is seein her once a week good, i remb from the bible that it was a rule in the post of how to keep ur LTR strong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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hey give us a full breakdown of ur relationship.

ages?
history?
sex life?
communication?
 

kk2004

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okay

i am 18 she is 17
we have had sex three times we are realli horny, we talk about sex all most evertyime we see each other.
we have been goign out for three months now.
Communication, i guess its good, i mean we talk on the phone three times a day. she calls me more.

I cant see her more than once a week bcuz her mom is very strict and she doesnt even know we are going out. if her mohter did she would give her a realiii hard time if i saw her anytime.

our history is good, no cheating, we say luv u, she said it first, i went to her prom and we have done lots of fun things toghether.
 

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are u both seniors? are u going to college next yr?

close to her?

dont worry about this ****..ur so young!


I know that u dont want to hear that or accept it.

but u are so young....just dont worry and have fun.
 

kk2004

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yeah

yeah she is gonna actually go to the same college and our schedules are perfect, she is gonna turn 18 soon and gonna go to college and im gonna be a sohpmore in college.

recently i was puttin a dapmer on our relationship cuz i kept brining the topic of her mohter being so harsh and that makes her upset. Im just gonna try to focus and have fun and enjoy my time with her.

So i dont know if AIM would make our relationship stronger or weaker. based on don juans rules. I know u told me to forget it, but u want me to forget her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thx

thx man. that was the answer i needed. I guess no AIm for me :D
 
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