"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kk2004

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im in a LTR of three months, and when my gf is at work i usually AIM her for about two hours maybe three days out fo the five.

Is AIM good for a LTR. She is at work. so she cant call me. I can only see her once a week cuz her mother is strict. So i do talk to her on the phone alot at least three times day for maybe 15 min each.

also is seein her once a week good, i remb from the bible that it was a rule in the post of how to keep ur LTR strong.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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frivolousz21

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hey give us a full breakdown of ur relationship.

ages?
history?
sex life?
communication?
 

kk2004

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okay

i am 18 she is 17
we have had sex three times we are realli horny, we talk about sex all most evertyime we see each other.
we have been goign out for three months now.
Communication, i guess its good, i mean we talk on the phone three times a day. she calls me more.

I cant see her more than once a week bcuz her mom is very strict and she doesnt even know we are going out. if her mohter did she would give her a realiii hard time if i saw her anytime.

our history is good, no cheating, we say luv u, she said it first, i went to her prom and we have done lots of fun things toghether.
 

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are u both seniors? are u going to college next yr?

close to her?

dont worry about this ****..ur so young!


I know that u dont want to hear that or accept it.

but u are so young....just dont worry and have fun.
 

kk2004

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yeah

yeah she is gonna actually go to the same college and our schedules are perfect, she is gonna turn 18 soon and gonna go to college and im gonna be a sohpmore in college.

recently i was puttin a dapmer on our relationship cuz i kept brining the topic of her mohter being so harsh and that makes her upset. Im just gonna try to focus and have fun and enjoy my time with her.

So i dont know if AIM would make our relationship stronger or weaker. based on don juans rules. I know u told me to forget it, but u want me to forget her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thx

thx man. that was the answer i needed. I guess no AIm for me :D
 
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