"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online approach & the dreaded mobile msg app firewall

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These damned msg apps are the chastity belt of the 21st century. I've recently been running into this more and more. As if getting her number then dealing with constant check in txt wasn't bad enough, now they have apps where if you ask for a number (especially online) they will throw up these apps instead of letting you even attempt a call. The dating site email systems are bad enough, once you get stuck in these messaging app traps it seems she has already won. Forget trying to call her for a date.

Any advice for a technologically challenged txt hater like myself? I'm trying to get these ladies on a first date, not write a wall of text with no emotional content about what I'm doing at any given moment. I don't think I'll add them to any msg app crap next time, if they refuse to give or take a number I'll next them immediately.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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I've gotten over 100 numbers from women online, plenty without asking for it...

Trust me if she isn't giving it to you its because she isn't interested
 

sylvester the cat

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^True.

And even if they give you their number doesn't guarantee they're interested.
 
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I have a date through one but I still don't have her actual number. Guess I'll be a guinea pig and if she doesn't hit me with her digits on the date I'll know for certain. She already sent me about 5 pics of herself and has seen that many of me so there is obvious interest.
 
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