"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Online approach & the dreaded mobile msg app firewall

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These damned msg apps are the chastity belt of the 21st century. I've recently been running into this more and more. As if getting her number then dealing with constant check in txt wasn't bad enough, now they have apps where if you ask for a number (especially online) they will throw up these apps instead of letting you even attempt a call. The dating site email systems are bad enough, once you get stuck in these messaging app traps it seems she has already won. Forget trying to call her for a date.

Any advice for a technologically challenged txt hater like myself? I'm trying to get these ladies on a first date, not write a wall of text with no emotional content about what I'm doing at any given moment. I don't think I'll add them to any msg app crap next time, if they refuse to give or take a number I'll next them immediately.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75

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I've gotten over 100 numbers from women online, plenty without asking for it...

Trust me if she isn't giving it to you its because she isn't interested
 

sylvester the cat

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^True.

And even if they give you their number doesn't guarantee they're interested.
 
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I have a date through one but I still don't have her actual number. Guess I'll be a guinea pig and if she doesn't hit me with her digits on the date I'll know for certain. She already sent me about 5 pics of herself and has seen that many of me so there is obvious interest.
 
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