"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oneitis self talk.
- Thread starter jebach123
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
By treating them all the same.
Serenity
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wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
you just keep thinking it and saying it until you believe it then don't let anything burst your bubble
I don't get oneitis anymore. The closest thing I get is higher than normal attraction for a woman.
Its hard for me to get onetitis when I don't respect or trust women enough to see them in such an elevated light that I would pedestalize them. I see really hot women as higher value because of the arm candy and the increased sexual desire. On the emotional level.. they don't do anything more for me than average women. So no oneitis.
Get more experience. Once you see women for what they really are.. you will realize they are just flawed humans that are not worthy of being worshiped or idolized in anyway. When a man has experienced years of rejection and some cute girl comes along and treats him better than normal.. that is all it takes for him to get oneitis. Its kind of pathetic. And because the man is so starved for love he is blind to the fact that all women have agendas and her behavior is more about HER and what she wants than about him.
When you understand this game on a deep level you don't get oneitis. You also learn not to cling to things in general as life is unpredictable and change is constant.