ive had a nasty case of oneitis fro a while now. its for this chick i met at a friends house one day. i finally got an excuse to talk to her on mypace (she doesnt go to my school), and i kinda backed myself into a corner by asking some closed-ended questions. I wanna work up to asking her for her email or phone number, so can i back myself out?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
oneitis/myspace
- Thread starter saber101
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sure you can... heres what you should do.
Just dont talk to her for a while (week, 2 weeks), then comment her and say something reminded you of her that can relate back to that time. Something funny would definetly be best. Then she will respond with something more than a simple yes or not and then your in.
Just dont talk to her for a while (week, 2 weeks), then comment her and say something reminded you of her that can relate back to that time. Something funny would definetly be best. Then she will respond with something more than a simple yes or not and then your in.