ive had a nasty case of oneitis fro a while now. its for this chick i met at a friends house one day. i finally got an excuse to talk to her on mypace (she doesnt go to my school), and i kinda backed myself into a corner by asking some closed-ended questions. I wanna work up to asking her for her email or phone number, so can i back myself out?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sure you can... heres what you should do.
Just dont talk to her for a while (week, 2 weeks), then comment her and say something reminded you of her that can relate back to that time. Something funny would definetly be best. Then she will respond with something more than a simple yes or not and then your in.
Just dont talk to her for a while (week, 2 weeks), then comment her and say something reminded you of her that can relate back to that time. Something funny would definetly be best. Then she will respond with something more than a simple yes or not and then your in.