"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oneitis- help me feel ok

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OK guys make me fell all right. I feel like **** right now. Lie if you have to but console me...:)
The thing is I just broke up with this girl, and I don't regret it but I feel like **** cause I hurt her. (she has oneitis with me)
She was the gr8est girl I knew (personality wise) but she didn't look all that good to me and I just wasn't in love with her. I can't help it. There wasn't any chemistry.
Do you think I will make it easier for her if I still stay friends with her or should I cut off all contact?
Also, she has a birthday in a month. Should I buy her something? I would really like to but there is always a posibility that she will think I want to get together with her again, which I don't.:(
We were together for 2 months.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You can't really love someone in only 2 months...

She'll be fine...just leave her alone. Before you know it some other guy will come along who is really into her and as soon as he kisses her she'll forget all about you.
 
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I sure hope so;)
Well, not LOVE, but be in love...there's a difference;)
So I should leave her alone? No present for birthday?
 
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You did the right thing. It was only two months. Its not like you built a life together. Better to end it cleanly then messing her around.

Should you styy friends with her? If she is the most awesome woman you have ever met I'd stay in contact...infequent contact.

As for a present, thats up to you.

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napoleon said:
OK guys make me fell all right. I feel like **** right now. Lie if you have to but console me...:)
The thing is I just broke up with this girl, and I don't regret it but I feel like **** cause I hurt her. (she has oneitis with me)
She was the gr8est girl I knew (personality wise) but she didn't look all that good to me and I just wasn't in love with her. I can't help it. There wasn't any chemistry.
Do you think I will make it easier for her if I still stay friends with her or should I cut off all contact?
Also, she has a birthday in a month. Should I buy her something? I would really like to but there is always a posibility that she will think I want to get together with her again, which I don't.:(
We were together for 2 months.
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I would not be concerned. She will get over you once she starts dating other guys.

I have let several relationships go where the girl was very into me. I just felt they were not a good match for me. In all situations, the girl eventually found someone else. I know several that ended up getting married.

I dont see it as a blow to my ego. To the contrary, I am happy for these women that they found the right guy in the end.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do women buy men gifts after they "break-up" with them?? Ohhhh Helllllllllll NO!!!!

Quit getting emotional over hors!!!!
 
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No presents, and don't apologize.
And just as WF said, before you know it some other guy will be with her and she'll forget you ever existed.
But she will remember you as a chump if you give in and apologize and buy her a gift....and maybe give her false hope.
It was your fault to giving in to your Ego by going with this girl when you knew in your gut you had NO attraction to her.
You reap what you sow,
That is the down side to the "Player" DJ.
 
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