"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BrownBear said:
Pride comes before a fall
yeah he's gonna fall on a D!ck!
 

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Purefilth said:
yeah he's gonna fall on a D!ck!

And you're going to give expert instructions on how to do that? hahahaha
 

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I'm strongly assuming NN is kidding about being a virgin... ?? The problem with short written statements is you can never tell whether or not they're sarcastic.
 

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Zarky said:
I'm strongly assuming NN is kidding about being a virgin... ?? The problem with short written statements is you can never tell whether or not they're sarcastic.

Wow dude, are YOU being sarcastic, hope so. I thought that was well played by NN, keep it up. Humble yourself NN and you will see the light my man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yea I guess I'm missing out on something. Now I know why I usually don't post in (or really even read) threads that aren't discussing women :)
 

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you can only kick a man so many times when he's down....I started it. He'll be back better than ever. I believe in the NN.
 

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Zarky said:
I'm strongly assuming NN is kidding about being a virgin... ?? The problem with short written statements is you can never tell whether or not they're sarcastic.
0 by 40 :up:
 

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sageproduct said:
:eek: I still don't understand what this is all about. Why would anyone be 43 and a virgin? Is this another troll or what

If true, that would be the first actually interesting thing NN has said here. There's gotta be a story behind it. A strange one. Though it would certainly explain a lot...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BrownBear said:
Fruity Ninja is a fvcking faggot, thats all
Hey there! Don't go all NN on us. You were so far the cool and cute BrownBear.
 

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BrownBear said:
Cause Zarky asked man ;)
BrownBear = Brown nosing Zarky 'cause he's gay for him.

BrownBear wishes Zarky would add him to the list of notches.

BrownBear wants Zarky to treat him like a dirty, cheap, nasty, filthy Wh0re!
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Shame on you picking on ther poor old Ninjaman, those green dots only go so far to save his feelings from gettin hurt y'know! ;)
 

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Purefilth said:
BrownBear = Brown nosing Zarky 'cause he's gay for him.

BrownBear wishes Zarky would add him to the list of notches.

BrownBear wants Zarky to treat him like a dirty, cheap, nasty, filthy Wh0re!
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Shame on you picking on ther poor old Ninjaman, those green dots only go so far to save his feelings from gettin hurt y'know! ;)

Purefilth = Pure nosing Ninjaman 'cause he's gay for him.

Purefilth wishes Ninjaman would add him to the list of notches.

Purefilth wants Ninjaman to treat him like a dirty, cheap, nasty, filthy Wh0re!
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

If you think something like that could hurt the old Ninjaman then you are the one who is picking on him

And those green dots only go so far to laugh at his face if his feelings actually got hurt by it ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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