"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey guys my oneitis just broke up with her bf.

Right now, we are friends. I've read the friendzone posts, but if you guys have anything to add, or personal experiences to share, that'd be great. So far here is my plan:

- up the kino
- up the flirting
- 2 steps forward, 1 step back
- keep doing good EC, smile more

I've been doing pretty much all that but not so much cuz she had a bf, but now it is time to rally my forces.

Anything to add? I'm thinking I can pull this off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No. I've never really asked her out. She never has said, "LJBF." She's never said, "I don't like you that way." and she's never said stuff like "I see you as a brother."

Anyways, I just read Fingz's post on Escaping the Friend Zone and I almost violated the GOLDEN RULE!

Never communicate to her directly your feelings.

This is a rare time where my lack of balls came in handy. My fear of rejection resulted in me bottling up my feeelings FOREVER! Anyways, she doesn't know I like her.

I'm jsut going to screw with her mind like, SLOOWWLLY up the kino cuz I haven't been doing that ... close to none really. One day I'll act focused on her and hang out and walk with her and stuff. Then the next day I'll just be a loof in regards to her. Not ignoring her, but I'm going to be sociable mostly with other people.

Fingz said something good like, "god...you gotta stop wearing that perfume before it makes me do something to ruin our friendship!"

and if she keeps wearing it, then i win.
 
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hey if noone has any more, tips say I'm gonna be ok or something so at least I know I'm doing the right thing.

I think it'll turn out well and she is rapidly becoming more comfortable with me right now. :)
 
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well... dont put all you're energy into attracting this one chick.. also flirt with other chicks... it worked for me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Keep focused on your goal but don't make it too obvious what you're trying to do. Make her KNOW that's what you're looking for but at the same time, you can't come on too strong because it might freak her out (since you're her friend right now). It's a very delicate balance.
 
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Originally posted by sinner
well... dont put all you're energy into attracting this one chick.. also flirt with other chicks... it worked for me
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Exactly, if she see it, she'll know that she's not the only apple of your eye. It'll bring out the competitive spirit in her and she'll want to get you before those other girls do. Plus, she'll know that you have a life.
 
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