"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lookyoung

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Suicide said:
If you had even read my post you would have noticed that I pointed out the Gracie's contribution. I only said that since them, Couture is the only guy who has done innovative things with MMA.

I have trained with the Gracie family. I have many friends who still do. I made a choice to study a martial art that wasn't MMA. Anyway, there are many better places to argue about which martial art is better on the internet than sosuave. People like you who train "four times a week" are a waste of our time. Try spending fourty hours a week in the dojo training like those of us who do it for a living, and then we can argue. Or not argue, since we tend to regard people like you as ones who will never "make it" in the martial arts, MMA or otherwise.

I think martial arts--any style--are a great thing for some guys here on sosuave. I only hope they don't listen to amateurs like you and generate their opinions of the martial arts based on your narrow, foolish ramblings.

And believe me, none of the top UFC guys have your pathetic elitist attitude. Feel free to ask them yourself.

Anyway, if any of you guys have real questions about any of the martial arts, martialtalk.com used to be a pretty good place with people who knew what they were talking about. I can't tell you if it's degraded since I used to frequent it or not, though. E-Budo.com is good if you're interested only in the Japanese arts.

How much you want to bet that this guy is a bitter karate blackbelt instructor.. :cheer: Ps if you trained with the gracie family your attitude would be different. You would know that a karate instructor such as yourself would get there azz handed to them.

BTW how did you fair against the gracies when you trained with them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonez

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two weeks lookyoungs been prancing around like the skinny punk who just beat up a little kid. No comment at all to his post Suicide?
 

luv2spwg

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speakeasy said:
I can throw out about 4-6 punches within one second.
Wow, how do you do that? Thats like lightning quick. You are pretty much invincible against an average man. I want to learn. What kind of training will I need to be able to throw invisible punches?
 

speakeasy

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luv2spwg said:
Wow, how do you do that? Thats like lightning quick. You are pretty much invincible against an average man. I want to learn. What kind of training will I need to be able to throw invisible punches?
4 punches in one second can be done by even a mediocre boxer.
 

Suicide

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Bonez said:
two weeks lookyoungs been prancing around like the skinny punk who just beat up a little kid. No comment at all to his post Suicide?
Heh. All I can say is he (and anyone else) is welcome to come here. I'll put my money where my mouth is, in front of all my students.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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