"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lookyoung

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Suicide said:
If you had even read my post you would have noticed that I pointed out the Gracie's contribution. I only said that since them, Couture is the only guy who has done innovative things with MMA.

I have trained with the Gracie family. I have many friends who still do. I made a choice to study a martial art that wasn't MMA. Anyway, there are many better places to argue about which martial art is better on the internet than sosuave. People like you who train "four times a week" are a waste of our time. Try spending fourty hours a week in the dojo training like those of us who do it for a living, and then we can argue. Or not argue, since we tend to regard people like you as ones who will never "make it" in the martial arts, MMA or otherwise.

I think martial arts--any style--are a great thing for some guys here on sosuave. I only hope they don't listen to amateurs like you and generate their opinions of the martial arts based on your narrow, foolish ramblings.

And believe me, none of the top UFC guys have your pathetic elitist attitude. Feel free to ask them yourself.

Anyway, if any of you guys have real questions about any of the martial arts, martialtalk.com used to be a pretty good place with people who knew what they were talking about. I can't tell you if it's degraded since I used to frequent it or not, though. E-Budo.com is good if you're interested only in the Japanese arts.

How much you want to bet that this guy is a bitter karate blackbelt instructor.. :cheer: Ps if you trained with the gracie family your attitude would be different. You would know that a karate instructor such as yourself would get there azz handed to them.

BTW how did you fair against the gracies when you trained with them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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two weeks lookyoungs been prancing around like the skinny punk who just beat up a little kid. No comment at all to his post Suicide?
 

luv2spwg

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speakeasy said:
I can throw out about 4-6 punches within one second.
Wow, how do you do that? Thats like lightning quick. You are pretty much invincible against an average man. I want to learn. What kind of training will I need to be able to throw invisible punches?
 

speakeasy

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luv2spwg said:
Wow, how do you do that? Thats like lightning quick. You are pretty much invincible against an average man. I want to learn. What kind of training will I need to be able to throw invisible punches?
4 punches in one second can be done by even a mediocre boxer.
 

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two weeks lookyoungs been prancing around like the skinny punk who just beat up a little kid. No comment at all to his post Suicide?
Heh. All I can say is he (and anyone else) is welcome to come here. I'll put my money where my mouth is, in front of all my students.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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