"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One thing i have noticed.

Zaraza

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Whether you are in school, or at work, or anywhere where it requires an achievement. When you do well it results in a boost in all of your life. Say you lift weights and you reach a new goal, this makes you feel great which can be seen by your actions. If you are in school and you score well on a test, that boosts your attitude and your belief in your self. At work, you can get a promotion or just excel at whatever you do. This all boosts your belief in yourself. If you are noticing yourself being droopy, or feelin sloppy or just SH!TTY about yourself, check those areas.

Make changes in those areas as well as your health.

For me it is school, I am restructuring my study habits and some classes have shown great improvements. It feels great to achieve because I then feel I can do something else and still do well at it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Couldn't be more true.
 

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Thanks guys, first one of mine that made a difference.
 
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