"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One thing i have noticed.

Zaraza

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Whether you are in school, or at work, or anywhere where it requires an achievement. When you do well it results in a boost in all of your life. Say you lift weights and you reach a new goal, this makes you feel great which can be seen by your actions. If you are in school and you score well on a test, that boosts your attitude and your belief in your self. At work, you can get a promotion or just excel at whatever you do. This all boosts your belief in yourself. If you are noticing yourself being droopy, or feelin sloppy or just SH!TTY about yourself, check those areas.

Make changes in those areas as well as your health.

For me it is school, I am restructuring my study habits and some classes have shown great improvements. It feels great to achieve because I then feel I can do something else and still do well at it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Couldn't be more true.
 

Zaraza

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Thanks guys, first one of mine that made a difference.
 
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