"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One thing i have noticed.

Zaraza

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Whether you are in school, or at work, or anywhere where it requires an achievement. When you do well it results in a boost in all of your life. Say you lift weights and you reach a new goal, this makes you feel great which can be seen by your actions. If you are in school and you score well on a test, that boosts your attitude and your belief in your self. At work, you can get a promotion or just excel at whatever you do. This all boosts your belief in yourself. If you are noticing yourself being droopy, or feelin sloppy or just SH!TTY about yourself, check those areas.

Make changes in those areas as well as your health.

For me it is school, I am restructuring my study habits and some classes have shown great improvements. It feels great to achieve because I then feel I can do something else and still do well at it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Couldn't be more true.
 

Zaraza

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Thanks guys, first one of mine that made a difference.
 
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