"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jokerlsk

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Wow guys, I feel like i'm finally improving. My confidence is sky high, my social life is at it's peak, and school is just going great. While i do still have some anxiety over girls, it seems like this is fading. I've always been outgoing, but i've also always been so critical in myself. Lately though, i've just decided to be who i am, instead of changing who i am. Girls are even talking about me. Wow that's a new one for me. The problem here is escalating. I know how to flirt, i've actually gotten good at it, and i know how to talk to girls even though it took so much practice. All i have to do is learn how to get the number. I'm in highschool, and this should be easy, but it isn't for me because i haven't always been so high up on the social ladder. I know i shouldn't ask for it, and I know I f'ed up today. Today was picture day, and the girl i'm interested in got all dressed up of course. I didn't talk to her all day until the end of class when she laughed at something funny i said as i was walking out the door. It was the PERFECT opportunity to get her number, but it just slipped my mind. I didn't wuss out, i just forgot. Failure for something like this is just plain unnacceptable, and anyways, there's a football game for my school tomorrow, so I'll have time to talk to her there too. I need to get the number if I'm going to escalate though. What are some good tips guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting numbers is a joke for me bro, I get so many...

I usually just usually tell them to give me their numbers. Sometimes, I like to say give me your number and we could hang out sometime.

Girls will almost never ask why you want their number but for the ones who do just tell them you want to get to know her and you guys can hang out sometime.

Honestly, I just walk up to random girls and I ask them for their numbers... It's just to easy and I usually get it.
 
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that's my problem right there!
I've got to be more confident when i approach. After all, these are girls that i am already acquainted with.
I just have trouble doing it.
 
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