Wow guys, I feel like i'm finally improving. My confidence is sky high, my social life is at it's peak, and school is just going great. While i do still have some anxiety over girls, it seems like this is fading. I've always been outgoing, but i've also always been so critical in myself. Lately though, i've just decided to be who i am, instead of changing who i am. Girls are even talking about me. Wow that's a new one for me. The problem here is escalating. I know how to flirt, i've actually gotten good at it, and i know how to talk to girls even though it took so much practice. All i have to do is learn how to get the number. I'm in highschool, and this should be easy, but it isn't for me because i haven't always been so high up on the social ladder. I know i shouldn't ask for it, and I know I f'ed up today. Today was picture day, and the girl i'm interested in got all dressed up of course. I didn't talk to her all day until the end of class when she laughed at something funny i said as i was walking out the door. It was the PERFECT opportunity to get her number, but it just slipped my mind. I didn't wuss out, i just forgot. Failure for something like this is just plain unnacceptable, and anyways, there's a football game for my school tomorrow, so I'll have time to talk to her there too. I need to get the number if I'm going to escalate though. What are some good tips guys?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
One step at a time
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