Wow guys, I feel like i'm finally improving. My confidence is sky high, my social life is at it's peak, and school is just going great. While i do still have some anxiety over girls, it seems like this is fading. I've always been outgoing, but i've also always been so critical in myself. Lately though, i've just decided to be who i am, instead of changing who i am. Girls are even talking about me. Wow that's a new one for me. The problem here is escalating. I know how to flirt, i've actually gotten good at it, and i know how to talk to girls even though it took so much practice. All i have to do is learn how to get the number. I'm in highschool, and this should be easy, but it isn't for me because i haven't always been so high up on the social ladder. I know i shouldn't ask for it, and I know I f'ed up today. Today was picture day, and the girl i'm interested in got all dressed up of course. I didn't talk to her all day until the end of class when she laughed at something funny i said as i was walking out the door. It was the PERFECT opportunity to get her number, but it just slipped my mind. I didn't wuss out, i just forgot. Failure for something like this is just plain unnacceptable, and anyways, there's a football game for my school tomorrow, so I'll have time to talk to her there too. I need to get the number if I'm going to escalate though. What are some good tips guys?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
One step at a time
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