Was out at a bar last week, and found a target, she was dancing with one of her girlfriends. I told my buddy she was cute and he kinda challenged me, he's like, oh yeah, what are you gonna do? Anyway, I just grabbed her hand and spun her around and started dancing with her, and she was very receptive. After about a minute she asked my name and we sat down and started chatting. I started minor kino and things seemed to be fine, we talked for about 5-10 minutes when I felt the conversation was slowing, so I told her I had to go say hi to my buddies on the other side of the bar, but I'd be back later.
Found her about an hour or so later, she was in the same place just chilling with her friends. I gave some smart remark, like, what are you guys still doing here...same spot I left ya. They laughed and she introduced me to her friends, and we chatted for about 10 minutes about whatever, what she was doing this weekend, where her friends are from, etc. I told her she should give me her number, and she was like, hmm...nah.
The weird part was after she said no, she still wanted to keep chatting. She told me the crossroads she lived at and asked where I lived, saying we should hang out again. I was like, uhh, I live north by the lake. I thought it was weird that she essentially shot me down but still wanted to continue the conversation. I left very shortly after that.
Has this type of thing happened to anyone else? She obviously wasn't interested enough to give me her number, but wanted to make idle conversation with a random stranger that would do nothing but waste time?
Found her about an hour or so later, she was in the same place just chilling with her friends. I gave some smart remark, like, what are you guys still doing here...same spot I left ya. They laughed and she introduced me to her friends, and we chatted for about 10 minutes about whatever, what she was doing this weekend, where her friends are from, etc. I told her she should give me her number, and she was like, hmm...nah.
The weird part was after she said no, she still wanted to keep chatting. She told me the crossroads she lived at and asked where I lived, saying we should hang out again. I was like, uhh, I live north by the lake. I thought it was weird that she essentially shot me down but still wanted to continue the conversation. I left very shortly after that.
Has this type of thing happened to anyone else? She obviously wasn't interested enough to give me her number, but wanted to make idle conversation with a random stranger that would do nothing but waste time?