“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One of the most ridiculous first date experiences I've ever had

Serg897

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Wow this blows. This is just going to be a bit of rant.

For a while it still looked promising. She was returning my calls and seemingly showing interest, and tonight I was going to finally get date #2 with her. She decides to call and flake at the last minute with one of the lamest excuses I've ever heard.

More thunderstorms rolled through Maryland this morning, exactly like what happened two weeks ago. She apparently had some episode getting to work this morning and was afraid of making the 40 minute drive to see me again, and the drive back. Knowing what happened last time, and that she was going to flake anyway, this time I directly volunteered that she spend the night - and she said it was "tempting" but the answer was still NO.

I guess this is another lesson to learn the hard way. Its particularly painful since I know I had the opportunity sitting right in front of me and I hesitated, then probably for this reason I developed a bit of an infatuation for her, and was REALLY looking forward to seeing her again and finishing what I started.

She kept saying that we should try again, but I know its over. This is the second time she cancels on a date - and calling again would be in violation of the two strikes rule. No more contacting her. What a bummer, seriously. I'll get over it eventually.

This comes during the same week that my other plate decided to tell me I wasnt what she was looking for - so at the moment I am back to zero prospects....time to get some more numbers!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Wow. Sometimes I really have trouble understanding how some guys can be sooo goddamn oblivious.
 
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