"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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One of the main things women like is confidence.Only YOU deny yourself that attribute

Toast123

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Think about it, the only person stopping you being confident is yourself.

And if one of if not THE most important things women like is confidence, then you give yourself a WAY bigger chance by just going FCK IT, I'm going to approach this situation with confidence because when you are confident even the WEIRDEST of things can be spun into a positive incident.

Saying hello to someone is a totally normal everyday thing right.

If you crawl up to a girl and say "H..h...hello..." while looking like a nervous wreck, women feel uncomfortable and the entire situation becomes awkward, instantly the girl is trying to figure out how the hell to get away from you.

If you walk up to a girl covered in fake tan, bleach blonde hair and a dress that took her seven hours to choose and say "Why hello there, I just came over to let you know that I really appreciate the "natural" look you are going for, it's a real change for this place! You go girl!" In the most confident manner possible you would still probably have more chance at walking away with a girl under your arm in the second scenario than the first.

Confidence is something you can learn and develop regardless of WHO you are, sometimes it really is enough to seal the deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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As an Israeli of African descent you should realize by yourself that confidence is simply a multiplier of what you are.

If you are a decent guy being confident makes you a cool guy while you are a strange guy being confident makes you creepy.

The same behaviour like a cold approach at a club would be considered as charming seduction if done from a cool guy while would be harassment if done from a nerdish guy with acne.
I'm talking about the same approach with the same words,body language and voice tone.
 
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