Think about it, the only person stopping you being confident is yourself.
And if one of if not THE most important things women like is confidence, then you give yourself a WAY bigger chance by just going FCK IT, I'm going to approach this situation with confidence because when you are confident even the WEIRDEST of things can be spun into a positive incident.
Saying hello to someone is a totally normal everyday thing right.
If you crawl up to a girl and say "H..h...hello..." while looking like a nervous wreck, women feel uncomfortable and the entire situation becomes awkward, instantly the girl is trying to figure out how the hell to get away from you.
If you walk up to a girl covered in fake tan, bleach blonde hair and a dress that took her seven hours to choose and say "Why hello there, I just came over to let you know that I really appreciate the "natural" look you are going for, it's a real change for this place! You go girl!" In the most confident manner possible you would still probably have more chance at walking away with a girl under your arm in the second scenario than the first.
Confidence is something you can learn and develop regardless of WHO you are, sometimes it really is enough to seal the deal.
And if one of if not THE most important things women like is confidence, then you give yourself a WAY bigger chance by just going FCK IT, I'm going to approach this situation with confidence because when you are confident even the WEIRDEST of things can be spun into a positive incident.
Saying hello to someone is a totally normal everyday thing right.
If you crawl up to a girl and say "H..h...hello..." while looking like a nervous wreck, women feel uncomfortable and the entire situation becomes awkward, instantly the girl is trying to figure out how the hell to get away from you.
If you walk up to a girl covered in fake tan, bleach blonde hair and a dress that took her seven hours to choose and say "Why hello there, I just came over to let you know that I really appreciate the "natural" look you are going for, it's a real change for this place! You go girl!" In the most confident manner possible you would still probably have more chance at walking away with a girl under your arm in the second scenario than the first.
Confidence is something you can learn and develop regardless of WHO you are, sometimes it really is enough to seal the deal.