"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One of the main things women like is confidence.Only YOU deny yourself that attribute

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Think about it, the only person stopping you being confident is yourself.

And if one of if not THE most important things women like is confidence, then you give yourself a WAY bigger chance by just going FCK IT, I'm going to approach this situation with confidence because when you are confident even the WEIRDEST of things can be spun into a positive incident.

Saying hello to someone is a totally normal everyday thing right.

If you crawl up to a girl and say "H..h...hello..." while looking like a nervous wreck, women feel uncomfortable and the entire situation becomes awkward, instantly the girl is trying to figure out how the hell to get away from you.

If you walk up to a girl covered in fake tan, bleach blonde hair and a dress that took her seven hours to choose and say "Why hello there, I just came over to let you know that I really appreciate the "natural" look you are going for, it's a real change for this place! You go girl!" In the most confident manner possible you would still probably have more chance at walking away with a girl under your arm in the second scenario than the first.

Confidence is something you can learn and develop regardless of WHO you are, sometimes it really is enough to seal the deal.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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As an Israeli of African descent you should realize by yourself that confidence is simply a multiplier of what you are.

If you are a decent guy being confident makes you a cool guy while you are a strange guy being confident makes you creepy.

The same behaviour like a cold approach at a club would be considered as charming seduction if done from a cool guy while would be harassment if done from a nerdish guy with acne.
I'm talking about the same approach with the same words,body language and voice tone.
 
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